Luann de Lesseps, Garth Wakeford.Photo: Manny Carabel/Getty Images; Patrick McMullan via Getty Images

Luann de Lesseps; Garth Wakeford

Luann de Lessepsand South African personal trainer Garth Wakeford amicably called it quits.

Wakeford, who made his debut on theseason 13 trailerofThe Real Housewives of New York City, had been the subject of rumors that he cheated on The Countess.

Lesseps, 55, recently shut down the accusations,tellingPage Six, “Garth and I stopped dating before the holidays and I only wish him well.”

A rep for Bravo did not immediately respond to PEOPLE’s request to comment.

Wakeford, 49, confirmed to Page Six that he and theRHONYstar split. He also refuted the claim that he was dating the woman who made the allegations.

“Regarding this girl, we have no relationship. She came to my exercise class once,” he told the outlet. “We follow each other in Instagram, and that is it.”

The cabaret star opened up about her relationship with Wakeford in November after rumors swirled about them after they were spotted leaving Hamptons restaurant Tutto Il Giornio, where they had gotten lunch. Afterward, they got into Wakeford’s car together.

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Luann de Lesseps

The Countess revealed during an appearance on the podcastEx Appealthat they met on a dating app and her first initial reaction was “Oh, he is too good to be true.”

After they met, de Lesseps recalled, “I said, ‘Oh, my God! He’s exactly what he looks like on the app.’ He’s tall, he’s handsome, he looks like a Viking.”

The reality star said she was going on “a couple of dates here and there” after her niece signed her up on Hinge and celeb-favorite Raya.

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Luann de Lesseps

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Of her experience dating in the public eye, de Lesseps said, “I don’t look at myself as famous — I really don’t. I’m just basically living my best life onThe Housewives. I’m just a girl who’s looking to date really.”

“A guy is either like ‘I can handle that’ or ‘I can’t,’ so it weeds out a lot of people,” de Lesseps said of men finding out that she’s on the Bravo show.

source: people.com